I haven't been here in a while. I did not use dom or anything else and I eventually got plenty of milk, at least by my standards. My experience may not be common but perhaps informative. When my daughter was born a friend from church who is a nurse (also a biological and adoptive mom who nursed all her children) who is also a lactation counselor advised me to never use the binky and just let my baby suck my breasts. She said it would be great for bonding and I just might get some milk. She came over and taught me the right way. Both my husband and my families are from the west indies and our mothers seemed to think that getting milk would be no problem. My mom and his mom told me to massage my breasts in the shower, rub them with cocoa butter and use heat compresses. I did drink a lot of fluids and used fenugreek. They just told me the milk would come. Please know that unlike others I had no problem using formula. I didn't use any lact-aid or anything. I really wasn't looking to nourish her, just enjoy the bonding. My daughter seemed to "nurse" around the clock. When we went out I brought a bottle to feed her and sometimes when she was finished I gave her my nipple. I always gave her the breast to comfort her as my friend suggested. My husband called me "the human binky". However, eventually milk came in. I started noticing my breasts becoming warm and then they seemed to get hard. I also noticed throbbing sometimes. I started pumping with a Pump in style a few times a day if she was sleeping or not interested, which was not often. My daughter was a very vigourous sucker and was better than a pump. Once the milk came in she got some milk she really got into it. We live in a university town where extended bf'ing is the norm. She is still enjoys nursing a few times a day at age 4. I bf'd our second child as well. Again I also used formula sometimes. As they begin to wean I am hoping to be able keep the milk flowing until we adopt again. For me there was nothing like having my child at my breast. I just enjoyed the experience. The milk was a bonus. I am not telling you to not use the Dom or other hormones. I was fortunate enough not to need them. However I have no idea what my body make-up is that may have contributed to my success. I would say that you should "nurse" your child as often as you can no matter what.