Email me privately at
burnsun@direcway.com or thru the pm on this site. I went through a pregnancy last year after 12+ years of trying and two completed special needs adoptions. Everything went well. (sort of).
I would get a new doctor if you don't feel comfortable. However, most of them seem to respond the same way to that question. I had better luck talking to the nurses & nurse practitioner about "feelings" or funny stuff. I also did a whole lot better when I started my childbirth classes & my doula helped. But I don't want to say to much prego stuff as not to offend anyone.
Jane