Hi KKB,
We're starting the adoption process for our 3rd. Last month I miscarried at 20 weeks after going through a donor embryo cycle in November. I'm 40, so it wasn't too hard to decide to go back to adoption. (IVF is physically challenging and I was having a rough 2nd trimester, too.) Thankfully, my milk came in and I'm taking advantage of the opportunity as I've always wanted to breastfeed. I see it as a gift from God in the midst of difficult times. I remember how hard it was to induce, so keep up the good work!
By the way, I like to mix up a strong tea from 1-2 TBSPs of Fenugreek seeds and 1-2 TBSPs of Fennel seeds in 3 or 4 cups of water. I boil them for 5 minutes or until the water is a nice amber color. Then, I drink it hot or cold. (I don't strain it until I'm ready to drink it, so the seeds steep a long, long time.) Doing that seems to work better for me than taking the fenugreek capsules -- my husband comments on my maple smell more after I drink tea than if I just take the capsules. It might be worth a try.
Best wishes,
Nancy