Hello,
I'm trying to induce lactation (my sister is having triplets and I want to help as much as possible). I will not actually be breastfeeding, but giving her my milk. I've only just begun and already have many questions.
I've read everything I can about it and I've started pumping two days ago. I was very surprised and pleased to see that I had small clear drops forming at one nipple after only a few sessions of 10-20 minutes of manual pumping (I've never had children but my mother and sister are very fertile, so I'm assuming I am too). I've bought a mechanical double pump and it hasn't arrived yet, so I wanted to try out the smaller manual pump I have and see how it works/felt. Is the feel of the manual pump much different than the mechanical pumps?
I've had several small drops of clear milk/fluid from one breast (my larger, dominant breast), but nothing from the other breast. Is this normal? Should I try harder/pump more with the other breast?
I've ordered Dom online but it will be a while before it arrives. I'm hesitant to use it longterm and really only wanted to use it until I got a good supply going, then wean off slowly, but continue pumping for as long as possible. I know about the supply and demand, so I figured once I started, I could get a good supply going and then stop using the Dom. If my supply drops after stopping the Dom, I could pump more to get my supply up.
Another question is more personal: how do I explain this to people? I've tried talking to some co-workers and friends about it. They just gave me weird looks and changed the subject. I talked to my doctor about it and he wasn't helpful at all other than saying "I'm sure your sister could just use formula too". I'm really not surprised at his response- he's a military doctor and military healthcare is not the greatest or most compassionate. Is there any way I can better explain this to others?