I bought a medela manual breast pump last night. It was the least expensive at $32 and I really like it! It has the dual expression gimick thing that I like and a soft instead of hard plastic flange. It's not noisy since it doesn't have a motor and it's real comfortable to hold. I also bought a nursing cover. So now the dilemma is solved. I'll just manually pump in the airport and on the plane. No big deal. I don't know what I was freaking out about.
J in Tx. I got my strategy from Lenore and another poster on this forum. My baby was breastfed for the first month of her life, but since then has been living in an orphanage and sometimes gets held for feedings, sometimes gets a propped bottle. She'll be 10 months old when we pick her up (next week!)
So the strategy is a slow pressure-free introduction to skin to skin care and to the breast. I'll start by bottle feeding her (with a newborn slow flow nipple) breast milk without a shirt on so she is next to the breast, and gradually spend more skin to skin time with her, take baths with her, and just get her used to being up against me and up against my breasts. Then I'll offer the breast. I think she'll take it and gradually learn to nurse. But if she resists, I'll put the bottle nipple over my nipple and thread the LactAid tube through the nipple hole and try to feed her that way. That part actually sounds complicated and I really think if I take the skin to skin thing gradually, she will go for the breast on her own. It was suggested to me to feed her at the breast with a newborn one hole nipple shield on to give her the feel of a bottle nipple at the breast. I really think that would work, too, but I couldn't find the right nipple shield. They all have 3 holes. Maybe I'll just buy that kind in case all else fails.
Meantime I'll keep pumping and hopefully what she gets from a bottle will be mostly breastmilk. That's it!
