My adopted daughter is 18 months. I have tandem nursed her with my bio 4 year old son since she was 6 hours old. (She had less than 2 ounces of formula in her life.) I needed a little (2 to 6 ounces a day) donor milk, but mainly I provided most of her milk.
I am taking 120 mg domperidone and motherlove's more milk special blend. I used to take 160 mg dom, but I was able to wean down. When I tried going to 110 mg many months ago my supply dropped. I recently tried to wean the special blend and my supply dropped so I'm back on full dose.
I buy Canadian dom since it has worked better for me. It costs about $80 a month. Ouch. It will be a huge financial relief when I don't need to buy it any more. I think the special blend is costing $20 a month.
I'm thinking about the future and weaning. My thoughts are to stop the dom when she turns 2. Any thoughts on that? Any suggestions? How do I do weaning doses of dom?
I think I'll keep taking the special blend as long as she wants to nurse since it does make a difference, though I don't know how much milk I'll make with just that.
Recently, my son stopped nursing to sleep. I think I just ovulated for the first time since before the baby was born. My caloric needs have decreased. I know when my son turned 1.5, I noticed a significant decrease in my appetite so assume his milk needs dropped then. I noticed another drop when he was 2. So, I don't know if my starting to ovulate/need less calories is just from him not night nursing (I doubt it.) Or if she's also cutting back how much she takes in. I anticipate her taking in less over the next several months.
It makes me sad to think of stopping the dom as I worry it will entice her to wean herself. She is not a comfort nurser, she nurses for food and gets on with her day. I think she will wean much younger than my son even if I have full milk supply. However, the dom is just so expensive for us.
I appreciate any thoughts. Thanks
Last edited by Second; 02/21/10 03:35 PM.