Its ok, I'm usually a very strong person, my husband has rarely seen me cry... well... the supervisor called the house after my husband left a 20 minute long nasty message and I was really rattled by the whole thing.... so... supervisor gets on the phone and I start crying, lol... I'm going on and on about its hard enough to face my own infertility without having this woman shove it in my face. I went on and on about how my body didn't work to have children, but that didn't mean I wasn't a mother and it didn't mean it wouldn't work to nurse my child when he/she comes home through the miracle of adoption... LOL... this supervisor is never going to let anyone say anything nasty about adoption again, lol, he's just going "I'm so sorry, Its ok, I'm so sorry". LOL LOL LOL Usually I'd be yelling and angry, but I have to tell you, the crying bit is effective. I'm going to have to try this next time my hubby and I are having an argument... LOL